Was geht bei euch?

Was geht bei euch? - Relationships on Equal Terms is a campaign by the bff - Federal Association of Women’s Counselling Centres and Rape Crisis Hotlines promoting relationships based on respect, consent, and equality.

Research shows that many adolescents experience boundary violations or forms of violence in their first relationships. Girls, young women, and trans people are particularly affected. Instead of focusing only on extreme cases, the campaign addresses the everyday dynamics through which power, control, and consent are negotiated in relationships.

As part of the campaign, three interactive relationship tests were developed on the topics of sexuality, closeness and distance, and communication. Available both online and as posters, the tests invite young people to reflect on their own attitudes and experiences through humorous questions and scenarios, encouraging discussion with partners, friends, or in educational settings.

For the video component of the campaign we developed a documentary-style reaction format. Young people between the ages of 17 and 20 respond to selected questions from the tests and discuss everyday relationship dilemmas – for example whether it is acceptable to read a partner’s messages, how to negotiate personal boundaries, or how to talk about expectations within a relationship.

The format was designed to create an atmosphere of peer-to-peer exchange. Rather than presenting expert explanations, the film foregrounds the perspectives and conversations of young people themselves. Alongside the main video, a series of shorter clips and outtakes were produced for social media, extending the discussion into the digital spaces where young audiences already engage with questions about relationships.